One Smart Cookie

When I posted my satirical (and maybe sanctimonious) daddy blog commentary about Pizzazz, in the back of my mind I had already planned a follow up post to help clarify a few points that may have been misconstrued. Do I think product reviews are bad? No. Do I think running ads or making money from parent blogging is bad? Not necessarily. In fact, over the past month, I’ve been gathering advice from a host of respected mom and dad bloggers as the first step in starting to treat my own site as a professional endeavor. The concern for me in doing this, however, is that I’ve also expressed some finite rules, chief of which being to always provide quality content that doesn’t alienate readers, and I don’t want to come off as a hypocrite.

Near as I can tell, people return to Clark Kent’s Lunchbox for …well, I don’t know why they do, but I’m sure it’s not for an extensive rundown on titanium, bulletproof infant seats produced by the strategic minds at Combat Kids International, makers of fine, military-grade baby products and distributors of state-of-the-art weaponry around the globe. Yet, if I’m talking about being in the business of blogging, that means working with profit-minded companies. This then begs the question of how. How do I as a “professional” blogger/writer form relationships with brands without sacrificing my own "product" or becoming a Pizzazz sellout?

This past week, after Blog Nosh Magazine approached me about a commissioned (yes, paid) opportunity to participate in their The Heart and Art of Parenthood blog carnival which involved a major brand, I found my answer. The thing is, this answer can’t simply be laid out in the form of a few bullet points—it has to be told, which is why I’m inviting you to Blog Nosh Magazine for a remarkable story about a woman who was one smart cookie. And in today’s economy, I think many of us will be able to relate.


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One word: Sellout!

Or is that two?

Just kidding. I figure if you're writing interesting pieces for an audience that wants to read them, and you believe in what you're writing, why not make a little money off it? As long as you're honest about it.

As the song goes, "Superman never made any money, saving the world from Solomon Grundy." He made his money writing. And today he'd be writing a blog.

james@doodadblog
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Sellout - yeah, I knew I was going to get that one =-) Guess I'm not writing for my health anymore--well, maybe for health insurance. Solomon Grundy can cause a few bumps and bruises.
The Business of blogging is business. I like that line because it means nothing and something all at the same time.
1 reply · active 778 weeks ago
Redundancy is the new "Profound" =-)
hmmmm adding an interesting take to the conversation. I will think more. Congratulations on the relationship though.
1 reply · active 778 weeks ago
Thanks. I getting compensated in Goldfish.
Even the mighty Spuds is picking up Advertisers... yes it's sad, but hey, braces cost MONEY for six kids! I'm proud of all you've done for Dad Bloggers, Dude. You keep leading the way and I will be right there with you!
1 reply · active 778 weeks ago
We're not writing for out health--we're writing for our health insurance.
I don't begrudge anyone for making money for sure. I have made a little, but the product reviews are not for me. Personally I can't do it. It feels like it cheapens my content and makes me a little less honest. To each their own though.
1 reply · active 778 weeks ago
I'm with you. Every time I've ever done a product review (which has been a long long time), it's gone over like Hitler at a Bar Mitzvah. Stick with what you know and do best.
A dad has to do what a dad has to do. It is possible to make money and keep your soul. Publishers do it all the time.
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Publishers have a soul? Or am I thinking of agents? =-)
A lot of the hotshot mom bloggers seem to make money and keep it more or less real. I'm sure you can pull it off.
1 reply · active 778 weeks ago
Oh, dude. Good for you. Extra cash is great. Speaking of which, can I borrow like, ten bucks? Just til pay day. Which, admittedly, may never happen again.
1 reply · active 778 weeks ago
Uh sure. I'm going to have to pay you in the form of Milano cookies though.
Necessity is the mother of invention. Some people start bakeries out of their homes, some start computer companies out of their garage and still others work to take media platforms and turn them into businesses. As long as the attempt is genuine and transparent, in my mind, it's all good. Any one of us in this space would love to figure out a way to make some money from our blogs. For me I've decided that my blog will remain what it is, but I hope to apply what I've learned by doing it to commercial endeavors in the form of consulting opportunities and, if I'm one day brave enough, my very own business that incorporates my desire to practice socially conscious capitalism.
1 reply · active 778 weeks ago
The attempt is genuine. Excellent point. Making money from blogs isn't a dirty thing, not if we hold to that.
Congratulations Ron!~ ya done good.For me..blogging is but part of my overall business, but it is business none the less. I look at each paid opportunity individually, each chance to work with and for a brand differently than the others. Nothing is ever blanket, except my desire to further the interests of the ones with whom I work. If I accomplish that my income increases manifold. Blognosh is a great place to do some writing, grab a little pay and get some exposure. We all need it in this great big wide internet if we're ever gonna be seen by the companies we wish to be seen by. Looking forward to the posting!
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Thanks, Deb. That's good advice. That personalized approach I think is what brands are looking for to give them a unique voice within communities of blog readers. I'm fascinated by that strategy (as long as the brands are being genuine like in Peppridge Farm's case). I guess my next step is getting myself in front of more brands like that. Thanks again,
I really really hope your readers click through to read the story you shared with us at Blog Nosh Magazine. Sure, you were compensated for writing it, but damn if it isn't an incredibly strong, well-written story. YOUR story.

There *is* a way to monetize your platforms without selling your soul. I won't pretend it's easy or that all brands are as flexible as you'd like (in which case I recommend politely walking), but if you are mindful, deliberate, and a bit tenacious, you can juggle the need to pay the bills and simultaneously hold your head high. First and foremost, by respecting your audience.

This carnival is a great example of a campaign creating the impetus for genuine storytelling (okay, okay, if I do say so myself). A handful of familiar voices telling unexpected stories because they were asked to look at their own stories from a different angle.

Enjoy your case of Milano cookies, Ron! (dear Lord, we did NOT pay him in cookies!... though I wish I'd known he was that cheap before now.)
1 reply · active 777 weeks ago
Thanks Megan, both for inviting me to be a part of the carnival and for the advice. Beyond what I said about, I have not a clue as to what to do from here. =-)

One of the things I do hope is to set an example of how to work with brands and not sell my soul. I think there are a lot of dads out there wanting to do this but are unsure. The Carnival provided them (and me) a great pattern of how to do this.

I really, really enjoyed this project (and not for the Milano cookies either)
as you know from some of our personal conversations, this is a slippery slope for me. i came out here b/c i love to write. one day i wanna make money by writing. just not sure how to do it.

all that said, i'm also out here b/c i wanna show the world what it looks like to be an involved and emotionally available dad.

know what it looks like? it looks like you, PJ, PDX dad, Jack Be Nimble and a lot of the other wonderful dads who have left comments. keep up the good work. gonna check out your nosh piece...
1 reply · active 777 weeks ago
Not doubt it's a fine line, one I'm not even sure where it's at. Still, I think there's a way and the Blog Nosh project made for a good example. And you make an interesting point - I don't want to use my daddy skills to attract brands. It would be easy to dangle that out there as credibility booster, but likes almost like pimping my kids.

And I can think of one other emotionally available dad to add to your list. Thanks John.
Dude. People keep coming back here because you're a great and entertaining writer!
2 replies · active 777 weeks ago
Thanks for the kind words. I hope to always provide that to readers.
Thanks. I really appreciate that. Hopefully I will keep it up.

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