One Smart Cookie
When I posted my satirical (and maybe sanctimonious) daddy blog commentary about Pizzazz, in the back of my mind I had already planned a follow up post to help clarify a few points that may have been misconstrued. Do I think product reviews are bad? No. Do I think running ads or making money from parent blogging is bad? Not necessarily. In fact, over the past month, I’ve been gathering advice from a host of respected mom and dad bloggers as the first step in starting to treat my own site as a professional endeavor. The concern for me in doing this, however, is that I’ve also expressed some finite rules, chief of which being to always provide quality content that doesn’t alienate readers, and I don’t want to come off as a hypocrite.
Near as I can tell, people return to Clark Kent’s Lunchbox for …well, I don’t know why they do, but I’m sure it’s not for an extensive rundown on titanium, bulletproof infant seats produced by the strategic minds at Combat Kids International, makers of fine, military-grade baby products and distributors of state-of-the-art weaponry around the globe. Yet, if I’m talking about being in the business of blogging, that means working with profit-minded companies. This then begs the question of how. How do I as a “professional” blogger/writer form relationships with brands without sacrificing my own "product" or becoming a Pizzazz sellout?

This past week, after Blog Nosh Magazine approached me about a commissioned (yes, paid) opportunity to participate in their The Heart and Art of Parenthood blog carnival which involved a major brand, I found my answer. The thing is, this answer can’t simply be laid out in the form of a few bullet points—it has to be told, which is why I’m inviting you to Blog Nosh Magazine for a remarkable story about a woman who was one smart cookie. And in today’s economy, I think many of us will be able to relate.
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James · 778 weeks ago
Or is that two?
Just kidding. I figure if you're writing interesting pieces for an audience that wants to read them, and you believe in what you're writing, why not make a little money off it? As long as you're honest about it.
As the song goes, "Superman never made any money, saving the world from Solomon Grundy." He made his money writing. And today he'd be writing a blog.
james@doodadblog
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There *is* a way to monetize your platforms without selling your soul. I won't pretend it's easy or that all brands are as flexible as you'd like (in which case I recommend politely walking), but if you are mindful, deliberate, and a bit tenacious, you can juggle the need to pay the bills and simultaneously hold your head high. First and foremost, by respecting your audience.
This carnival is a great example of a campaign creating the impetus for genuine storytelling (okay, okay, if I do say so myself). A handful of familiar voices telling unexpected stories because they were asked to look at their own stories from a different angle.
Enjoy your case of Milano cookies, Ron! (dear Lord, we did NOT pay him in cookies!... though I wish I'd known he was that cheap before now.)
CK_Lunchbox 92p · 777 weeks ago
One of the things I do hope is to set an example of how to work with brands and not sell my soul. I think there are a lot of dads out there wanting to do this but are unsure. The Carnival provided them (and me) a great pattern of how to do this.
I really, really enjoyed this project (and not for the Milano cookies either)
johncaveosborne 33p · 778 weeks ago
all that said, i'm also out here b/c i wanna show the world what it looks like to be an involved and emotionally available dad.
know what it looks like? it looks like you, PJ, PDX dad, Jack Be Nimble and a lot of the other wonderful dads who have left comments. keep up the good work. gonna check out your nosh piece...
CK_Lunchbox 92p · 777 weeks ago
And I can think of one other emotionally available dad to add to your list. Thanks John.
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